Anapiye oyera amakonda kugonana ndi amuna akuda. Amakonda kuchititsa manyazi amuna awo ndikuseka mitu yawo yofiira. Sataya ngakhale makondomu ndi mvuto wa okondedwa awo kusonyeza kuti akunyenga mwamuna wake. Ayenera kudziwa kuti amamunyengerera ndi zakuda ndipo samayamikira machende ake. Bulu aliyense amawerengera kuchuluka kwa amuna omwe adakhalapo ndipo amanyadira kwambiri kugonana kwake ndi Afirika amphamvu.
Mtsikanayo ndi wokongola, koma makondomu samandisangalatsa ngakhale pang'ono.